Shall not blog much about Genting because there's wayy too many things I could blog about.
It'll take forever and I'm too lazy.
Summary : Min Hun's birthday was on the same date as Samy, while Annie turned 20 on the 9th. It was really really fun and I'm sure all of us enjoyed ourselves. =]
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The reason for this post isn't about Genting though. It's about that recent comment on my tagboard which kinda made me think.
There were countless times, unknown guys told me "I wish my gf is like you".
So....What am I supposed to feel when you guys tell me that? Happy? Proud? Flattered????
Sorry to say, but it makes me feel sick in the stomach instead.
Guys, before you go after a particular girl, I'm sure that there was something about her which captured your eyes and your heart the moment you knew/saw her. Am I Right?
When you've gotten her as your gf, for the first few months, you'd feel really happy because you got what you wanted.
BUT...After some time, you'd start seeing her flaws. Maybe she doesn't dress the way you like her to dress. Maybe she doesn't look pretty all the time. Maybe she doesn't understand you the way you want her to. Or maybe she doesn't seem exciting all the time. Whatever it is, you should get what I mean. After awhile, that so called perfect dream girl of yours doesn't seem so perfect after all.
Well, all I can say is welcome to the REAL world kiddo.
No one, and I would like to emphasize on this. NO ONE, can ever be perfect. When you're with your gf, learn to accept her for who she is. Let her know your likes and dislikes and maybe, just maybe she would change. For you. (If you're lucky. haha) But even if she doesn't, hey, you made the choice to go after her so, it's either live with it and stop whining or break up with her.
Don't go to other girls and say things like "I wish my gf is like you".
I would like to ask you this. Before you say those words, have you ever thought of all the things she has done for you? Have you ever thought about the things she has sacrificed in silence for you? have you ever wondered how much she loves you?
If you haven't, you have no right in saying that.
Plus, the dumbest thing is, guys who said that to me doesn't even know me. I find it very stupid. How could you say things like that to someone you don't even know?
And guys, don't come to me and complain to me about YOUR gf's. I'm not interested to know and I would not side you nor comfort you when you tell me your sad sob stories. I'm staying neutral. For all I know, you could be making everything up, backstabbing her, while your gf is at home being all innocent thinking she's got a good bf. Damn, The more I write, the more frustrated I feel.
Guys, just BUCK UP alright?! STOP living in some fantasy world where you dream about some perfect girl as your gf. It ain't gonna happen. And as much as you wish someone else is your gf, that someone may very well be someone who either 1. Doesn't know you or 2. Doesn't feel the same way or 3. Becomes your next gf and you realise that she isn't as good as you think she was before she became your gf. I do believe I'm quite right on this. haha. =)
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At first, I thought of blogging a SHORT post just to reply that comment. Didn't know my thoughts would flow so freely today. haha. Guys out there, I'm sorry if I've hurt your feelings (maybe you're one of them) but I just had to let it out. Just take it as an honest advice alright. ;)
