This post is dedicated to someone. Yeah, you know who you are! :)

Guys.
Guys claim that girls are just so difficult to understand, so complicated, so ................ (insert word of your choice here)
In actual fact : we are not!
It's either you guys are too clueless/too stupid/too blur/too egoistic or just simply having that I-don't-care attitude.
We are very simple, really.

It's really sad that sometimes the "first love" experience can hurt so deeply that it makes even the strongest fall to their knees. Ever went through that?

There are many types of guys and if I were to categorise each one of them, there would be just 2. The good and the bad guys.

And now, I would be talking about the bad guys.

It is said that good girls are attracted to bad guys. How true is that? Why do good girls get attracted to bad guys and why do bad guys love hurting good girls?
You see, bad guys have this capability to make any girl(the bitch,the slut,the whore,the good girl, the nerd) attracted to him.
And once they've got the girl, the dramas would unfold.
You'd hear stories about him, about his ex's, about what he did, about the kind of person he is. People would tell you to break up with him, but you wouldn't listen because you've fallen too deeply for him. Despite all these, you would think "maybe he will change. He tells me he loves me, maybe he's not like that. I'll just stay a little while more, he needs me".
I tell you, bad guys can do ALOT to hurt a girl. Examples are : he would hang out with other girls on purpose to make you jealous, tells you stuff about the girls he admires, tells you the gruesome details about what he did with his ex's. Well basically, treating you like dirt as well, making you feel that you should always be at his feet. The moment he calls, you should be there. Treated like a dog, no?
BUT! these guys still get girls! WHY? because girls are so soft when it comes to love. Girls could brave through the rain, survive the storm, climb the highest mountain, swim the deepest oceans when they're in love. Trust me, girls have this particular inbuilt tolerance level for the person she loves. (Ok, maybe not applicable to all girls, just some.)
As for the answer to : why do bad guys love hurting good girls?
You'd have to ask them jerks. I have no idea why either. Who the hell in the right mind would play out someone so innocent?

Okay..so maybe girls would do everything for the guy she loves..but there's always the negative side of things. Once she can't take it anymore, that's when, she would walk away.
That is also when, the so-called player would crumble and begs her to come back. He would swear he'd change. But, it would be too late. She would've given him too many chances, and each time, he breaks her heart by breaking a promise, her heart gets broken and she dies a little more everyday.
You see, Once a girl's given up on a guy, there's no turning back and she could turn into this heartless, most cruel person you'll ever know.
The guy could beg, cry, kill himself, etc. Nothing would move her because her heart's gone a long time ago.

There's a saying : you love what you don't have and take what you have for granted.
The thing is..Why can't we just be gratefull for what we have?

Take the time, to see how beautiful something can be, instead of looking around because what you want may be right in front of your eyes and you don't even know it.

Don't treat the one who loves you badly just because you think that she will always be there. The fact is, there is only so much she can do for you.
You won't want to live in regret don't you?
You won't want to wake up one day and think, "damn, I should have never let her go."

Guys (applicable to those who thinks that they're in the bad guy category), enough with the playing cuz you're going no where, it's time to grow up and be the man you should be.


To you, my dearest friend, I know you would have enough courage and enough strength in you to go through these shitty moments in life. And always remember this : Even this shall pass. One day..all the pain, hurt, anger and tears that you've been feeling will go.. and you would be waking up to a brighter day. Be strong! Let's laugh about this in years to come. =)