I've been wondering about superficial relationships for a long time..
....why would people persue superficial relationships in the first place?

I've met many people who are together but they see no future in their relationship.
And if they're asked, "so are you going to get married to him/her since the both of you are together for so long?"
the guy would answer, "no?".
So WHY the HELL does the guy want to continue the relationship in the first place?
Is the girl just a toy with no feelings?
Why would he want to waste her time being with her for so long when he knows there is no possible future for the both of them?

In the world we live in today, most people are no longer taking relationships seriously.
"chill la, you're so young, just play around first"
Time and time again, I've argued with people who told me such "advices".
I hate those words.
If that's the best "advice" a person can give, I rather not hear it.
What happened to the sanctity of relationships between a guy and a girl?

Yeah, I know if you're young you shouldn't take relationships too seriously.
But then again, that does't give you the pass to fool around.
Some people just don't know their boundaries.

I hate guys who can't commit.
Plus, I have ZERO respect for people who does not respect others.